That One Was Mine
Shame, blame, and the four bravest words there are
Why some people can never be the one who did it.
A flashlight on the machinery inside people. Ages 8-12 · about 33 pages.
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The story
Invented people, a real situation, told in short chapters with big pictures.
What happened here
The mechanism in plain words, said straight: facts flat, odds with their "unless".
Where it comes from
How people and systems get this way, so the reader stops guessing it's their fault.
Puzzle pieces
Questions to talk about, with no answer key. The reader decides.
This book is about shame, blame, the turnaround (DARVO), projection, kintsugi. It shows how that works without taking sides and without talking down, and it ends with questions instead of a lesson. Your kid may ask you something afterwards. That's the point.
The Grown-Ups' Guide
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Next in the reading order: The Rollercoaster
